Self Doubt is Bullshit – How I Spoke To 3,000 People

I flew to Portland trying to keep my expectations neutral. Last year’s World Domination Summit had changed my life – no word of exaggeration. How could this year’s event live up to that billing?

So much would be different. I knew people who were attending this year. The speakers were new, a different workshop format, three times as many people were going.

Ah yes – 3,000 people were going to attend this year. Which somewhat ramped up the other major difference – that I’d be speaking to them.


I found out about two weeks ago that Chris would like me to tell the story of The Hundred Dollar Club.

I’ll admit to breaking the law slightly here. I saw the email arrive whilst I was driving. But what I saw was this:

IMG_2194To avoid crashing, I couldn’t scroll down. I drove with baited breath (is that possible?) and parked as quickly as I could. A quick scroll revealed that they did want want me to speak!

Oh Wow. Good job I was parked by this point! I promptly set a new Personal Best for the number of simultaneous conflicting feelings:

Yes! Get in! Holy Shit! Wow that’s going to be awesome. ARGHHH! Right, what shall I say? WHAT THE HELL AM I GOING TO SAY?! AND HOW AM I GOING TO DO IT IN FRONT OF 3,000 PEOPLE?

There were more thoughts that I can’t remember. My head was spinning faster than my wheels had been, but eventually I settled into the thought that it was an amazing opportunity, and I’d secretly wanted to do for a while.

Last year, I’d sat in the back of the theatre and thought – “You know, I’d quite like to speak up there next year.” I didn’t make it an explicit goal, but it was always there in the back of my mind – It subconsciously pushed me to create a story worth telling.

I replied saying I’d love to speak. And I actually meant it.

A little secret about me is I love tests. I’ve always bizarrely quite liked exams, and difficult situations, as long as I’m prepared for them. Two weeks was plenty of time to prepare a 3 minute talk, so I went to town on it. There was some fear and some doubt, but a year of pushing myself to do uncomfortable things told me this was right. So, to prepare…

I Googled something like “how to write a good speech”, and pretty much every result mentioned Nancy Duarte somewhere. Given she was to be the opening speaker at the event (She didn’t disappoint), I tried to apply her advice as much as possible within the confines of three minutes.

I researched how many words would likely take up 3 minutes then wrote, rewrote and reworked a speech that I thought would do the job. I practised the SHIT out of it. I tweaked and tuned till I thought I had it down. I wasn’t totally perfect, but was as good as I was going to get.

It wouldn’t be true to say I was relaxed when I met fellow attendee speakers Jean, Amy and Rami before going in, but I was OK. Rami Happened to say “No plan survives contact with the enemy” and we all laughed a bit.

Then, a tiny detail dropped a bomb on all of us. We’d prepped for 3 minutes and given ourselves a bit of leeway. My last practice came in around 2:40.

 We had only 2 minutes. ARGHHHHHHH! What to do?

I started thinking – should I just ignore the timer and go for my original speech? Would a trap door open and swallow me up after 2 minutes? I decided probably not,  but it would be a bit disrespectful, so I, along with the others set about mentally culling parts from our stories.

Actually, not so mentally – during the first part of Gretchen Rubin’s talk I was scribbling and crossing out bits of my notes. I did one final mental run thought and…


I showed Amy, who’d evidently being doing exactly the same thing. We took screenshots as a memento, and a reminder that we’d be fine!

After nervously half listening to Gretchen’s Talk and vaguely learning that I was an “Abstainer” and an “Obliger”, we headed backstage – it looks a bit like this by the way – the blurred effect was pretty much how my eyes saw it:


Deep breath, quick chat with Chris who told us we’d be extraordinary and we’re on.

Oh My Goodness it’s amazing to be up there.

I loved every second of it.

Loved it.


Hopefully a video of the talk will be around soon – then you can judge for yourself whether I was any good or not, but frankly I was ecstatic. Jean, Amy and Rami were awesome, and I think we all marched off with a sense of disbelief and swollen pride.

So – lengthy descriptive bit over. What did I learn from this experience – turns out an immense amount.

Firstly, pushing myself to do it was a great education. One of my heroes gave me some advice:

“If your Lizard brain is telling you not to do something, try walking towards it”

Whilst I deep down wanted to talk, my brain was in overdrive telling me a hundred reasons why I shouldn’t. I ignored them and walked into the fear. As I did that I think the it realised the game was up and switched to make sure I didn’t do anything too stupid, like swearing on the stage (It didn’t quite get all of those, sorry)

I’ve definitely grown as a person this year by taking on uncomfortable stuff, and in all cases I’ve found I actually liked those things in the end. As I said in the talk itself:

Self doubt is bullshit!

This definitely resonated, because it got a huge cheer, people came up to me afterwards and thanked me for saying it, and I’ve seen it in a few tweets! I’m learning to embrace things which seem far fetched and scary, including people tweeting stuff I say!

I was also starkly reminded of something I already believed:

Everything can be simplified.

I thought my talk was at it’s very essence, but it wasn’t. With the right circumstances and pressure I chopped fully a third from it and it still got the message across. In fact, I’m sure it improved.

The whole experience was a fitting round up to a year where I have firmly believed that if you put your mind to it, take action and get support, you can achieve big things. The guys in The Hundred Dollar Club did, and you can too.

That’s going to be my renewed focus for the coming year – getting so called ordinary folks to do amazing things, using my three personal themes from #WDS2013:

Connection  |  Community  |  Action.

I want to scale up the work of THDC to impact and change more people. Are you with me? Drop your email below and together we’ll make great things happen.

I’d love to know what your takeaways or themes were. Has WDS inspied you to do something awesome this year? Please do share in the comments.


Get involved with The Hundred Dollar Club


  1. I laughed out loud when I saw your screen shot of the timer! Well played! I forgot to include mine in my post.

    It was so great to meet you and have you as my partner in anxiety. ;) Hope to keep in touch!

    Keep rocking your extraordinary life, my friend!

    • Thanks Amy – was great to be up there – Will certainly keep in touch, I want to see what you get done next!

  2. As a part of the inspiring THDC I was so proud to see you up on stage – you rocked it. You are such an inspiration and a great leader and I can imagine you up on stage giving a key note in the not too distant future. Rock on :-)

    • Thanks Ducky – You’ve done amazing things this year, and are an inspiration yourself. Keep doing what you do.

  3. Rob – What a great and authentic post! I hit WDS this year and really enjoyed your talk. I saw each and every attendee/speaker and was beyond impressed with how you guys handled yourselves. Utter respect. I imagined myself up there after a year of pushing and then attaining a great goal, but then thinking about talking about it in front of 3K people completely freaked me out. Just like you WERE. I love how you went from finding out, to accepting the invite, to preparing and then to adjusting. Wow – truly inspirational. I’ll be referring back to this post many times….

  4. Great writeup! I loved this and will be sharing … and yes, we’re working on video (give us a few weeks).

    Thanks for being a huge part of all things world domination. Hope to see you in 2014 and beyond!

    • Hi Chris, thanks for taking the time to comment, and for sharing. Much appreciated.

      I’ll definitely be back again in 2014, I feel like part of the family now.

  5. Rob–it was great meeting up again this year! I’m so proud of all you’ve accomplished. You are a rock star! I promise you, by this time next year I’ll have done something incredible, as well….so, hold me to that. ;)

    Self-doubt IS bullshit, and that’s something we need to be reminded of often, isn’t it? I find it so interesting that the initial step can be so terrifying, yet when you truly believe in your cause, YES is the only answer.

    My takeaway was that we are all superheroes, and we are all uniquely endowed to change the world; yet, we need to support one another to optimize our gifts. I first met Chris in December 2010 and each time I do, I’m inspired and my goals balloon. I’m currently working with a life coach and several mentors around building a career doing what I love–writing–on my terms and overcoming my biggest fear by facing them head-on, all whilst surrounded by an incredibly supportive network. Let’s do this!

    • Erin, I know you will have done something awesome by next year too. I’d love to be part of helping you make it happen.

  6. Fantastic job up there Rob, and great writeup. Public speaking can be thrilling, nerve-wracking, and downright terrifying, but you nailed it. Nice work.

    • Thanks Jim, It was all of those things, but above all awesome! Good to see you there, and I hope you’re up to great things in the coming year.

  7. It definitely resounded with me! Actually, out of everything I heard those couple of days, its what stuck with me the most. I have a project I’m starting and I emailed a contact that directs a homeless organization. I figured I could tell him what I was doing and that would be it, instead he invited me to come speak and explain what I’m doing and then the men can sign up if they want to participate.
    Part of me, a big part is saying “ok…done. Not speaking! Not good enough!”
    Then a voice pops up that says “self doubt is bullshit”
    I can’t argue with that, because its true.
    So, thank you.

    • Go Go Go!

      Speak to them – the more people that know about your project, the more likely it is to succeed. Love that this has pushed you just a little bit.

  8. Walking into your fear is one of the most liberating things you can ever do.

    If you prepare for it, and get as safe as you can, you can do anything you fear. The adrenaline rush – it’s like nothing else. It gives you a clarity, a sense of ALIVEness, like nothing else can.

    I was honored to watch you go through that experience. Congratulations.

    • You’re very right Caelan – it’s a great rush, and I want more of it! Intersting that that might have come from just walking into something fearful – I thought it was the talking itself, but that gives me somethign to experiment with – thanks!

  9. Cheap Authentic Redskins White elite jerseys

  10. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about white iphone. Regards

  11. [...] Rob Young talks about his 90 seconds of fame on stage. [...]

  12. Shooting frequent sideways glances from underneath the lashes, seeking open his full attention or even winking
    are typical common flirting gestures in the U. Don’t let yourself result in a
    marriage in which you feel lonely and perpetually frustrated as your man won’t or CAN’T be your girlfriend.
    They will want a woman who’re good in household chores particularly if it comes to cooking since they’re quite concerned when it comes towards the taste in the food.

  13. I’m not sure exactly why but this blog is loading incredibly slow for me. Is anyone else having this issue or is it a issue on my end? I’ll check back later and see if the problem still exists.

  14. What’s up, everything is going fine here and
    ofcourse every one is sharing data, that’s actually excellent,
    keep up writing.

  15. What’s up to every single one, it’s genuinely a pleasant for me to go to see this website,
    it consists of valuable Information.

  16. This is a very good tip particularly to those new to the
    blogosphere. Brief but very accurate info… Many thanks for sharing this one.
    A must read article!

  17. The other day, while I was at work, my sister stole
    my iphone and tested to see if it can survive a twenty five
    foot drop, just so she can be a youtube sensation.
    My iPad is now destroyed and she has 83 views. I know this
    is totally off topic but I had to share it with someone!

  18. I consider something genuinely special in this web site.

  19. You should take part in a contest for one
    of the greatest websites on the web. I most certainly will highly recommend
    this web site!

  20. I go to see every day some blogs and blogs to read articles, but this webpage offers feature based posts.

  21. There is a lot of useful knowledge for me that I’m learning

  22. День добрый, хотела бы спросить относительно вашего любимого места отдыха? Собрались с мужем и детьми на отдых и прочитали на этом сайте рекомендации для туристов. В принципе есть желание слетать к морю за границу примерно в Грецию, Турцию или Болгарию. Подскажите где на данный момент предпочтительнее провести отдых?

Leave a Reply to the new 209 led canbus light Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>


Join The Movement

Thoughts provoked weekly. Direct to your inbox. For FREE!